I don’t have much to update on (thankfully?). But I’ve been cleaning out my phone gallery and I found some pictures where I loosely documented how the first week of the war and our journey from Kyiv was like. So I think I’d like to share that, so the others have an idea of what it was like
One of the last few “normal” photos I took, just two days before the invasion. I visited my friend who works in a coffee shop and we accidentally let a cat inside. I was trying to shoo it away after it made it’s way to the milk cartons. I remember the two of us chatted about the usual problems we had like idiot clients, rude professors, relationships, etc. It all seems so insignificant now, doesn’t it? We also talked about the possibility of russia attacking. We had no idea it would be happen so painfully soon.
The “bed” my family and I slept in when the war began. If you remember, we dragged out a few mattresses into the hallway of our apartment block because of the safety provided by the stronger walls. Our neighbours had left the day before we set this up, so with their permission we moved their things and set up our sleep spot.
One of the times I went to volunteer to help chop up some wood from the fallen branches. We loaded up the truck and it went to the nearest checkpoint.
Speaking of checkpoints, that day I also made some cookies to bring over to our territorial defence. I made them smaller so that they would be easier to eat, haha.
Magnus the frog, sleeping in the frogs’ little cave. One of the last ever pictures I took of my boys. I just realised that I will never see them again.
That one time my family and I had to spend our night in the apartment block’s basement. A lot of people predicted that night would be disastrous, with one of the worst and hardest air raids russia has done yet. Everyone was terrified. When we were making our way downstairs, I was shaking. I didn’t say a single word. When we were all sitting on the cold floor with not much chairs or beds around, I was paralysed with fear. My phone couldn’t get any signal, so I couldn’t message anything to the people that I held most dear to me. I thought that it would be my last day on this planet.
Fortunately, we did make it out alive. No damage has been done to our area. However, with the danger of russians moving further from Irpin, we decided to leave Kyiv for safety. This was the last picture I took of my room before we left. It’s still March over there. (as you can see by my belongings i’m very immature for someone who’s turning 18 this year)
We got moving and spent the whole day on the road. By the time nighttime rolled around, we realised that we couldn’t make it to Chernivtsi before the government announced curfew began. So, we decided to stay for the night in a refugee shelter in Vinnytsia. As you can see by the line of cars
in front us, a lot of people were eager to enter the city as well.
The shelter in question. This is the area where everyone sleeps, to be exact. This used to be a dojo and also a swimming pool, but the owners reorganised it to be a shelter for refugees like us. They also offered free food, things like clothes, personal hygiene items, even toys for kids. It was a bit crammed in there and sleeping was next to impossible with the constant chatter or snoring. A few people even brought their pets with themselves, so that’s.. fun -_-.
And this is what dinner was like over there. I wasn’t that hungry, but the varenyky were pretty good.
After our night there, we were back on the road after curfew was over. And we finally got to Chernivtsi around lunchtime.
And that’s just me when we arrived to the refugee shelter. Probably the least interesting thing in this whole story. You know the rest of it by now. I mean, aside from the part when we were kicked out of our apartment after living there for a week. But I’ll probably save that for another time.
Paul
Hi, Paul ~ I just want you to know that I cried about your two adorable frogs, whose names I can't remember at the moment, but I know I thought their names were adorable when I read them & so are they. You never know ~ animals and people, too, have amazing ways of being able to survive and I'm hoping & praying for you and everyone you love that you will all survive. I've been thinking about you ever since you started writing these posts. I love the picture of that extremely cute cat which you took on one of your last normal days ~ it looks just like any day, anywhere ~ I think about that all of the time for all of you and I'm hoping & praying this horrific and pointless war will end soon. That adorable cat reminds me of my own cat, Dewi, and I hope & pray she or he is finding a way to survive, too. You have such an incredible spirit, Paul ~ thank you for all of your extraordinary posts...Sending all of my wishes for life to be sweet & normal again soon. ~ Jennifer 🌻🇺🇦🌻
Hi Paul,
Thank you for sharing your photos.
It gives us a small insight into your own situation.
I have family in Cyprus who are still refugees in their own country after the Turkish invasion of 1974. They had to live in tents for several years. Even though they are safe now, Turkey still occupies North Cyprus. I am lucky as I have never experienced that terror but certain moments trigger those thoughts of 1974 and even from young, I have always appreciated personal freedom more than anything in this world. I hate anyone dictating how another person should live. I hope yourself and Ukrainians can live in peace soon. Try to keep busy. I know it's not easy but try and focus on your studies too. You have dreams that are waiting to be fulfilled. Please try and stay as safe as you can. 🐀
You’re not ungrateful. Maybe someday soon we will come to Ukrane to play a gig and you can direct us to a good typical Ukrainian restaurant
The chicken definitely doesn't look too good. I looked up varenyky and I think I might have to try it soon.
Thanks for sharing your journey out of normality into this nightmare Paul. Still hoping that someday soon, a sense of the life you had before will begin to emerge 🙏🇺🇦
A fascinating chronicle of events and clearly demonstrates the transit from life as normal to one evading war. How would many of us feel having to leave those things that are dear to us (no matter what they may be), to living in shelters and surviving on handouts and peoples good nature? Thank you for sharing.
Such a frightening experience for you all.